People Will Try To Dump Their Garbage On You Don't Let Them. Do You Know What Will Happen If You Allow Them To? Things That God Did Not Intend For You Will Happen, Use WISDOM

I have had several conversations throughout the years with men that are very wise (and women also but for the purpose of this story it was with a man.) One particular man and our conversation comes to my mind right now. I had a conversation and this is what was given to me as good advice. There will be people that will want to dump their garbage on you and I remember so clearly that this person warned me that even though they try to dump their stuff on you, you do not have to take it and don't let them dump it on you.
Did you ever discover yet in your life that it seems to be the people closest to you, family, friends, co-workers. Or better stated would be those that you spend the most time with. They all seem to be well meaning in just having to share this or that with you  or that it would best be done this way and not your way. Oddly enough, the best way seems to be their way. Doesn't that just drive you further away from them? People tend to be more aggressive on dumping their stuff on you or at least trying to do that the closer you walk in destiny and having God have His way in your very life. Can anyone relate to this? This is where it is crucial to block out the negativity and think on pure and lovely thoughts and things of God. This would be a great time to pull out older prophetic words that may have been spoken over you life and remind the enemy that he cannot have his way with you through using others close to you to get to you. You must remind yourself and the very one's that speak this negativity that you are special in the eyes of God and the plan and purpose for your life is valuable to Him and it is walking out in your very life as I speak about it right this very minute. Sometimes you have to put your foot down and say enough is enough and let it go. They may not want to hear those words or they may not receive them from you but you must take charge of your life and the stuff you allow or better yet, do not allow into your life. USE WISDOM. You have not because you ask not...ask God for wisdom and He will shower it upon you and in you through the movement of Holy Spirit.
Some do this out of anger or that they are not happy in their life so they feel they can express whatever they want to express and that you should accept it. WRONG...they may think that but it is your obligation to yourself to filter what you allow in your space. This can go both ways also. It may not be negative things but a constant boastful bragging about them self that can open the door to the enemy also.
I am not telling you to not celebrate the good in a person's life, I am suggesting to not let that disguise of goodness be the trap for you to take you down OK. If you may have opened the door to the enemy from being trapped by the words of others then ask God's forgiveness and close that door pleading the blood of Jesus over that and then move forward. Do no get upset with yourself that you allowed that person or often people to trick you into receiving their garbage just move on. Be thankful that Holy Spirit warned you of it and is there to help you stay away from those very traps set by the enemy. You do know he can and does use people to get to you right.
So, what are you going to do after reading this blog? Ask forgiveness for allowing doors to be opened by the enemy; ask God to remove hurtful words that may have been spoken to you or about you to be removed from your memory; and then remind yourself of the good and lovely things you do and that you were created to do with your life. Look upward to Jesus and move forward into your destiny. You know the only destiny that is not fulfilled is the destiny in your life that you block from manifesting. Don't be your very own stumbling block in your very life. I speak life over your life and destiny come forth in the mighty name of Jesus. And the people said "Amen."