I received a DVD of a person preaching to young adult men/women. I was up bright and early today and Holy Spirit prompted me to view it today. WOW what a word for not just others but it encouraged me also. My electronic dictionary states a weasel is this: "any of various carnivorous mammals with a long, slender body, short legs, and a long tail. A sneaky, deceitful person. To be evasive; equivocate." Equivocate means to use ambiguous language; hedge.
Are you dating someone currently that fits this description? RUN, RUN, RUN and do not look back. Why would you settle for something less than the person your Heavenly Father has just for you. You are beautiful and to rule and reign with Jesus. If that be the case then you should hold out for someone that respects you, will defend you and protect you also. Someone that sees your beauty and admires the way you compose yourself and take the time to make yourself not only look beautiful but smell sweet with the fragrance you use, to allow him to stand up and declare that he is blessed, very blessed indeed to have you as the woman/wife in his life. Women just because you choose to not date and wait for God to bring forth this union in your life does not give you an excuse to not take care of yourself and dress as though he is not out there. For the very day you choose to not tidy up just may be the day he walks into your life and you will not be happy with yourself if you should have unkempt nails/toenails (meaning not polished or wearing chipped nail polish) hair that is not combed etc. I do not mean to harp on you because I am guilty of that at times too. I may just get up on a morning and go walking, I do brush my teeth and comb my hair. I do not plan on meeting him while walking though because that is my time with the Lord and it is in those moments that He speaks to my heart and I get direction for the day and even the very ideas that I sit at the computer to write about.
You should be dressing not to please a future man though as your only reason. You should dress to just dress for yourself. When one is dressed up with hair, nails done, make-up, matching accessories etc. you say that you are all put together and others perceive it as that also. When you are comfortable with yourself then a man can walk into your life. Why would you want it any other way? Work on yourself and let God work on him OK.
A man that is truly a good man will look out for your best interest and will truly want to protect you for you are a gift given to him to lift him up and encourage him in his daily walk. Do not mock him, compliment him; do not belittle him but build him up; do not dress frumpy for him dress as though you were before royalty for that is exactly what you are before. When God sets up a marriage He does it right and does not hold back for either the woman or the man. Celebrate this union and never take it for granted. A good woman is truly a blessing for the man and a helpmate to him. If you are one that loves to serve others than you will be an excellent wife. There is not greater pleasure to a wife than serving her husband. Go shopping with him he may love your input in putting together an ensemble for his wardrobe. Or better yet he may be very good at putting together his own outfits and maybe he would be a blessing to you to help you put together a great outfit for yourself. It is not all about changing your style of dressing there just may be a certain look that he enjoys in a woman and do not be afraid to dress like that on occasion to please him. Remember, a man is visual and it is OK to dress for his eyes and at times for his eyes only.
Wait for him do not settle for the weasels in your life wait for royalty and when he enters your life do not treat him as though his is just some object. Treat him with the respect and love that you would extend to royalty. God loves you and trust in Him and you will be glad that you did.
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