I Learned A Valuable Piece Of Information Today From Pastor, A Tidbit On How To Keep Your Marriage Glued Together.

Let me pose this question to you, "Do you have passwords on your computer, cellphone, twitter, etc?
If you are a married person or in a serious relationship with someone you should not have them. That is right. A good marriage with trust firmly in place would have no need for passwords. A spouse should have freedom to check their spouse's e-mail, cellphone, twitter, etc any time to see who they are conversing with. What Internet sites they view etc. If you have nothing to hide then this would be welcome in your life and marriage or serious relationship that you are in.
I would trust that you would welcome the opportunity to share with them. If you have nothing to hide or you are not participating in anything that is shameful then why not freely hand over your cellphone, e-mails, etc. Those that are addicted to things that are not good or are having secret conversations with others that may be married should not be going on. Stop and repent and then change your ways. Be honorable and hand over that cellphone email or chats and you should also have the freedom to reciprocate too. I think this is a good policy for a serious relationship. It is not spying or anything like that. It is protecting yourself and your marriage and your spouse. There are many out there that are set out to break up marriages so they can have a relationship with someone. I am not saying that everyone is like that, just use wisdom and do not let your guard down.
When you let your guard down that is when the enemy sneaks in. He does it subtle at first and once he has his foot in the door he slams the door shut tightly so it seems impossible for you to break away from the sin. Keep away from those that choose to walk in sin and then flaunt it right before you. That is just a tactic of the enemy to get you off track. You are stronger than you think. Trust in Holy Spirit and He will guide your footsteps and place those on your path to help you when prayer is needed. Do not be afraid to ask for assistance when it comes to prayer. There are situations that you can pray yourself out of and then there are others that need help from the prayer of the power prayer people. Fasting also helps too.
Guard your marriage and then train the younger generation how to guard their future marriage.
You know, as a parent, you can pray for your child/children's spouse from infant to adulthood. Pray the prayers of protection over them and your children. That God will keep both of them safe until the time is right for them to meet. Pray that the wrong influences or even people they may want to date or are dating leave their life so they can be ready when the right person that God sends into their life appears. Pray that they have the wisdom to recognize them as their mate also.
Above all else, trust in God and He does and will continue to direct your footsteps.